Fuckbuddy datting line
Similarly, a couple that only sees each other in short, intense bursts in between long stretches of non-contact (long-distance relationships and out-of-town hook-ups, for example) is probably going to want to have the DTR sooner – the intensity of that time together, coupled with the length of time spent when you together tends to necessitate making sure everyone is on the same page.
To give a personal example: my wife and I had our DTR conversation the third time she came to visit…
If they care about your feelings on the matter, they will actually respect that you want to give this important discussion the attention it deserves.
If they’re demanding an answer right then and there…
The conversation may be short or it may be long but either way, you want to be able to talk about it without feeling like you need to come up with an answer by X time .
If your partner springs the conversation on you without warning, then ask for time to think and pick a day to talk about it.
In fact, if you’ve been finding that you’re seeing each other more and more often lately, that’s often a sign that you’re both becoming more and more interested in one another and invested in your relationship together – a sign that you should consider discussing just where you think the relationship is going. If you’re getting together twice or three times a week on your lunch break, but not spending extended periods of time together, then the DTR conversation can be pushed back in the relationship timeline.
Side note: These guidelines are assuming that the frequency you’re seeing each other or talking is a mutual decision.